Skip to main content

Ask Me Out Already?!

I am becoming restless. I am single, but not single...I want to date, however I don't feel as if I am in a position to do so. I want to meet someone worth my time, however its too soon to consider committing my time to someone else.
So, I have a bit of a crush. I won't elaborate and you can't coerce me. He seems to be a sweet, smart and good looking guy. Problem: He won't make a move. I have no clue as to how he feels about me. He does things that lead me to believe he is interested but he has yet to ask me out or ask me for my number. I refuse to solicit his company and I wonder if that is all the push he needs.
And so begins my foray into the world of dating. I have no clue as to what to do or what I am doing. I now realize the comforts of marriage. I had someone that I came home to, that came home to me (well, thats debatable) and if I went to a bar, lounge or club I never had to worry about who was going to approve of and eventually attempt to get to know me. Now I am in the realm of single life where first appearances are crucial, lonliness is a reality and the only official is the superficial.
Cheers!
Labels:

Comments

  1. AnonymousJanuary 5, 2011 at 10:25 PM

    Girl I am in the same boat as you with a damn crush and don't know what to do....ugghhhhh All I know is this ship needs to set sail very quickly cuz i am sooooo frikkin impatient.

    ReplyDelete
  2. KPJanuary 17, 2011 at 11:46 PM

    Um...just ask him what's the deal, love. Nothing's been invested yet, so you have nothing to lose but a little face. =oD

    ReplyDelete
  3. AnonymousFebruary 15, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    If you never work up the nerve to say anything, you might miss out on something beautiful. It doesn't always have to be the male making the advance. Yes the chase is fun (sometimes), but I gurantee you some men may be in the same position as you. Believe it or not some guys just don't see the clues. The list can go on and on. The point is very simple and has already been stated...........just ask!!!!!!!

    ReplyDelete
  4. thinkinkyFebruary 15, 2011 at 7:34 PM

    Thanks for the advice KP and Anon.
    I am a true lady (well, I try to be). I don't solicit men. A man has to tell me something. There is no way that I am going to put myself out there. Bottom line: If he wants me he ought to say or show it. If not, I'll move on to the man that will. Besides, I have an ego the size of Texas. I can't bear the rejection! LOL
    @Sabbie: You know what I have to say: DROP IT. If he can't find the balls to make his feelings known, go with the guy who will. Life is too short to be daydreaming about some dude that won't holler. Oh, and shouldn't your screen name be Stella? LMAO

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

K-Ci & Jo-Jo Come Clean.... : REVIEW

When I heard that K-Ci and Jo-Jo were coming out with a reality show documenting their experience going through rehab, I was excited. The first thing I wanted to know was which one was K-Ci and which one was Jo-Jo (yes, it has been that long since I have seen let alone heard of them since highschool). I always loved Jodeci and when the two lead singers of the group branched off and made a few ballads I looked forward to hearing more, but more never came. Years passed by and I continued to play their hits and came to terms with the fact that this group was never going to reunite and the two brothers whose vocals lead the group to super stardom with were coked up and out for the count. Enter K-Ci and Jo-Jo: Coming Clean. I figured they were going to finally boot the snow blizzard that packed their nostrils. WRONG. They are kicking the alcohol habit. They claim that there was never a drug problem. We all have heard otherwise, but they insist. If moscato can turn me into what these t...
9 comments
Read more

Geek of The Week: Meet Anthony, Creator of the Geek Forum That's Taking Facebook By Storm

I met Anthony about two decades ago, and I'm being stingy with the time so not to reveal how ancient I truly am. We were high school kids in New York and life was fast paced. I never realized how unique he was because New York is full of diversity and well...eclectic people. Years later, I came to appreciate him in all his geekiness and realized that we had a common thread in all things geek and freak. So he is my geek of the week. Anthony has spearheaded a group called Gamers Geeks and Comic Book Freaks , or GGCF if you're nasty... or geeky. This group allows all sorts of gamers, comic book lovers and self proclaimed geeks to share intellectual discussion, gaming advice, comic book news and more. It's the place on Facebook where all the geeks go and believe me, there is an army of them. Joining the group is pretty easy...just ask. Anthony has created many different forums within the group itself so he can direct you to the page that works best for you. In addition to ...
4 comments
Read more

The First Time: Act Like You Know

" You know I care about you", he whined. He always seemed to whine when he was trying to persuade her. His brown eyes were wild and pleading. She didn't want to. She couldn't put a finger on why she didn't or when she would, but she just didn't. He still kept at it. What was a conversation became a debate. Every sentence said was in the form of an argument. He was stating his case. Why was he so passionate? "I'm not going to go anywhere. You know that." His frustration became apparent. He was annoyed with her for being so indecisive. He was impatient. He didn't want an answer, he wanted "the answer". She began to feel nervous. He did care for her, she knew that ... he isn't going anywhere... she knew that . Why was it so hard to give in? He finally relented with a few cuss words and turned his back to her. She felt like she upset him. Her nurturing instinct told her to make him feel better. She touched his shoulder, be...
4 comments
Read more