Nappy Diva Beauty Tips: Top 3 Reasons You Can't Keep This Diva Down

Being a self-proclaimed Diva is no easy feat. I have to live up to the title. There are times that I'm not feeling up to par however, no matter how I may be looking or feeling, I like to use some tried and true items to get myself over the hump. If there is one thing you are going to tell me, it's not going to be that I'm not fabulous! So check out my Nappy Diva Beauty Tips:

The Lips: If you can't get your shadow popping, go for the lips. I discovered Lip Venom 12 years ago and I always keep some on hand. Lip Venom gives your lips a tingle and allows for a "bee stung" look. I usually order mine from Sephora. In fact, I don't know where else to find it. What I love about it is that it gives my lips a great shine and they actually do look a bit more rosy in color. Beware: Lip Venom is addictive!

The Look: Being a Diva on a Dime is easier than you think. Grab a few nice pieces and even when you are feeling your worst, you can still look fabulous! I like to go to higher end stores and pull a few solid pieces that I can mix with skinny jeans and heels. Believe it or not, Saks is great for that. If you order online they give you 10% off your first purchase! Worried about the price? Try the sale rack first. Bluefly.com is another great place to go for great items.

The Attitude: Listen, well...read! I don't call myself a Nappy Haired Diva for nada! Whether my hair is short, straight, long or curly I have the attitude of a woman that if fabulous. I don't allow other people's opinions to affect how I feel about myself. So even on my worst day, I still claim my Diva title. It's not just what you wear, but it's the attitude behind it.

Happy Fabulousness Folks!

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